At the request of the bride and groom, for various reasons, the children were not invited to their union. But the irreducible parents decided not to care … and paid for the consequences.
We have the right not to love weddings (don’t we, Mom?), we have the right to. You don’t want children to attend such an eventAnd we have a right not to invite them to our big party, especially when it is for him marriage.
And we also have the right to respect our will, and not offend those who completely ignore it.
On Reddit, the experience of newlyweds can make people shiver (or make you want to throw a pod in the face of these guests).
The bride explains that she made the decision not to invite the children of her guests to their wedding for financial reasons:
” My husband and I made it clear that our marriage would be childless. I have a cousin who has eight children. All of our family and friends have two or three children.
The kids in general are very nice – the main issue was the price. Our room charged the same price for children over 2 and adults, $250 per person. He would have doubled the price and our room wasn’t big enough for all the kids “.
The kids weren’t invited to the wedding, but they landed nonetheless
On Reddit, the bride explains Many solutions have been suggested for concerned parents, such as extending dinner the night before so the kids can have a little fun, but also hiring five (5) babysitters to take care of the 30 or so kids of parents who couldn’t find childcare. The children were kept in the bride’s husband’s parents’ house, not far from the wedding venue.
A good compromise, it is not always found in marriages without children.
However, despite this, some guests defied the prohibitions (and went against the wishes of those he invited) and They brought their beautiful offspring back to the wedding.
Did you go down the drain? Yeah. certainly.
From the kids to the wedding party, what can go wrong?
Almost everything. Also in her Reddit post, the bride explained that the parents refused to allow their children to be brought with other children into their allotted home, and Scandal Books.
” My husband was called to handle the situation; He said they could stay as long as the kids didn’t cause trouble and the parents paid their share. The room team even quickly set up a table for the kids. »
La situation a continué de déraper pendant la cérémonie, les enfants courant et hurlant partout, puis durant le repas ou ils auraient jeté de la nourriture partout, ainsi que sur la robe de la mariée, avant de se planrisquer pons la sign.
The bride at the end:
” My bridesmaids pointed out that the food they threw had landed on my wedding dress, and This is when I’ve had enough. I “looked” at my husband who collected the children, brought them to their parents and told them to leave for good. »
A salty bill that has not yet been paid
After the wedding, the newlyweds decided to send the bill to the parents who had brought their children despite the ban.
” After the wedding, and this is where we might be wrong, we sent the bill to the three couples with a letter telling them we had a good time with them and reminding them that they agreed to pay their uninvited children’s share.
pay two spouses; Sorry, they even said they understood why we couldn’t include the kids. Apparently the couple with the two naughty kids refused to pay because we asked them to leave before the cake.
Instead of apologizing we received an angry call. All I said was that they should be glad I didn’t send them the bill for my dress. My husband even said it was the end of their friendship. »
Conclusion: In Rome, let us do as the Romans do, and On childless marriages, let’s not force children. Well, unless you think that parents are within their rights…
And if we charge the wedding-meal on the bunny bunnies without warning?
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